Powering up my Hive (And a bathroom mirror montage :)

in #hive3 years ago


I have started over on this three freaking times. I don't know what the deal is, it's ridiculous, why am I finding it so hard? I wanted to do a kind of reintroduction.

A Hey Hive remember this girl?


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I was among the refugees fleeing the once mighty platform that was steemit, paddling into Hive with a handful of others I knew, with a broken oar and a boat full of holes.

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I watched so many break off from the group and row toward distant Isles, it was definitely a tough time for us all.


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And it is with great amounts of gratitude that I view those who took the best of what Steemit was about and created the greatness that is Hive.

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In my humble opinion, the front end that is PeakD is unrivalled in its form and function by all of the copy cat platforms out today, and I'm proud to have been there at the start of it.


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Many thanks to exceptional souls like @yabapmatt for this. I know there were many more involved, but his name comes to mind as I vividly recall bugging him with questions in the early days when I was setting up my peakmonsters account :)

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And speaking of peakmonsters- how cool is Splinterlands?! Yet another facet of the platform that I was blessed to be apart of in its infancy, even winning a few diamond tournaments with the alpha and beta cards, battling the mighty @clayboyn! A treasured friend to this day:0)

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All of this occurred BC, when the world seemed a brighter, friendlier place.


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When I first returned to the platform in the fall after a year and a half hiatus, I wasn't sure what to do with myself. Whether it would become important to me again, or if it would just be a much better use of my time than Facebook.

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I knew from the past of course that it was a place where longer posts are encouraged, and a great outlet for anything from journalling, to travel blogs, to photography and the many, many forms of creativity.


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What I didn't know was whether or not I would find any passion for it.

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All of this has been running through my head as I've spent more time lately dancing around the Hive, checking out some really great posts, from both familiar and unfamiliar names.

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It was really @arcange that started me thinking about putting a little more into this. A couple weeks ago I received a comment congratulating me on becoming a minnow again, and it took me right back to my dolphin days and how awesome it felt to reach that level!


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I'm quite a ways from it still, but I got there in the first place by doing what I'm doing. And this time I have a leg up thanks to some truly wonderful people I have met over the years. People that I want to touch on now, since it is truly all of you that makes this place so incredible.


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@canadian-coconut, you are an absolute treasure, whose support means the world to me. If it weren't for you I'm not sure I would have pushed forward. I can't thank you enough Linda, and a part of me wants the El Salvador end game just so we can meet :)


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@meesterboom, this entire blogging world wouldn't work right without you! You, my friend, were the main thread, the blog I continued to visit that kept me tethered to this place during my hiatus. One of my favorite people in the wide world, we will have that beer one day! :0)


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@frot & @kiwideb You guys are the freaking best! My constant friends, I do adore you. The world might be crazy, but life is awesome, and having you guys out there reminds me of that xo


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I'm always excited by the pop-ins from my sweet, intelligent, talented, genuine friend that I love so very much @therealpaul; and the sensation, the life of every party, the legend that is @nonameslefttouse.. Hope to see your brilliance again soon!


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@ericvancewalton my kindred spirit, my friend, a man of empathy and grace. You gave me the wings I needed for my fiction to fly when we met, and I have not forgotten. So happy to have you on this journey still!

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@acidyo I've been trying to figure out how to thank you for your support throughout the years- and this seemed a good place to do it. People like you make platforms like this one a great place to be! All of Hive is lucky to have you.

And whoever runs @appreciator ...you rock! Thanks a million times for the bright spot you have put in many a day since I've been back!


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@ryivhnn My friend from down under, I did not forget you. How could I? When so many of my posts would have gone unseen without you. It's so funny to me that I have a friend who lives as far from me as one could possibly get, whose face I've never seen, and still has a significant impact on my life. Five years and counting, let's shoot for twenty girl! Thank you so much for being you!!


The above pics were my kind of selfies for years. A bathroom mirror, or a shot of my feet XD

But here is one of the only selfies I have ever taken solo, sometime in 2021. I would have used it as the kickoff pic, but I forgot to smile:0)

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@kiwideb Do you recognize the necklace? XD



"One day you'll leave this world behind, so live a life you will remember"



@anomadsoul aka a-beautiful-soul, I will always be glad we met,
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@klye you still rock ;)


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An honorable mention to those I wish were here. @ed-the-songster @jedau @ezzy @hanshotfirst @quinneaker @everlove @merej99 @surfermarly @the-alien @donkeypong @htooms @onceuponatime @tonyr and the dude formerly known as @son-of-satire Some of you I'm blessed to know outside of this place :)


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And finally @tarazkp & @galenkp- if you're going to be tagged it should be in an edifying post, one that honors you, this place, and the people you respect, so I hope you don't mind being included here :)

There is definitely something about having a stake in a place that makes you root even harder for it. So this is my first real step into Hive, an incredible global platform that I love more everyday- and I hope there will be many, many more of them :)


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I love seeing so many familiar names mentioned like this, but I was hoping for some soft fade transitions in the montage, like a memory sequence from an 80s daytime movie!

In the past when I did posts like this, there would be collages of everyone but me, so I figured 🤣

Time you made up for it then :)

Like this for example :0)

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Thank you for the mention. Looking forward to you becoming a dolphin again.

You have no idea how much your encouragement at just the right moment affected this decision, thank you so much! :)

Thanks for the kind words. Been busy offline in a land where these devices simply refuse to connect to the rest of them.

I see while I was gone the local psychopath was still being crazy. Certainly don't need that nonsense in my life. Thanks for at least attempting to set the record straight there; I saw your comments.

I've been thinking long and hard about focusing on and dedicating some time to creating/entertaining. I was on the fence in December. I think you remember that. I had been gone, then showed up after noticing another one of the local psychopaths connected to the other psychopath was harassing me in similar ways. It's really hard to focus the right energy and be entertaining when you know full well there are crazy stalkers out there waiting and watching for another opportunity to cause harm. Hard to ignore it.

Yeah, that guy really pissed me off. At first I thought he was nuts, then I realized he's just a complete asshole. Although yeah, you have to be a bit psychotic to accuse people of that shit, especially if you have any doubts about it. He really was just throwing a fit because he lost his voters though. I looked,and he didn't have a single conspiracy style post until then.

And targeting you and the Boom? Fuck that noise, you guys are awesome. And I say this with authority considering the friends I've gathered over decades- I am an excellent judge of people. I knew who Paul was before I met him in person, and I was one hundred percent accurate on my assessment, for example.

I don't blame you, not for disconnecting or for being a little wary, and weary of people. But I always check in to see if you have some new :)

Those downvotes over the years seem to send some types of people over the edge. I remember receiving my first round of downvotes way back in 2016. That was a tough pill to swallow since I didn't really understand what was going on. Since then I've probably been hit with 1000 or more downvotes and it slides off. Just once I was pissed because someone was using them to push me around, but that didn't last forever, and I decided to be professional about it; leading to both of us simply going our separate ways rather than making a scene and trying sway opinions with ridiculous platform politics that lead nowhere.

Since December I've seen a few people build cases against downvotes, but they all took that conspiracy angle. Sensationalized everything. Remained ignorant and combative any time someone would attempt to talk and sort things out.

It went from people acting like terrorists saying basically, "You either agree with our approach and all these insults or that means you're against freedom of speech," to "You either agree with our approach and all these insults or that means you're an evil satanist."

It's incredibly easy to observe that particular behavior now that several instances of the same said behavior have occurred and are now all locked into the blockchain.

Not once were they looking for an actual solution. Always looking to make a scene, play the victim, then, promote Blurt or something else. Always in that order. You can even go back to that first meltdown post of his and see a comment of mine where I called it weeks in advance, saying now Blurt stakeholders will have to deal with this mess.

Several times now I've seen members here meltdown but use that attention to promote other platforms or tokens. Not use it solve the problems. Other times a small group jumps in to manipulate those experiencing a downvote meltdown. You'll see them any time there's a meltdown, promoting their other platforms, attempting to convince those to leave here and go there.

And they do. They leave here, and go there. Typical course of action is a few ass kissing "we love Blurt" posts that get voted up by the people over there but after that these folks then try to post their usual brand of content but there's nobody around to support them. Same pattern continuously.

People at their lowest points in their lives here become prey, get brainwashed, then turn into shills. Even that entire 'good vs evil' angle they often take is exactly what cults do.

There are platforms on Hive that don't even have downvotes, and anyone is free to create a community and token in the same fashion. The solution sits there, waiting to be embraced. If that's what people wanted and needed though, that whole concept would explode and become successful. Not sit there going stagnant while the ones pretending that's the solution ignore it, just so they can make a scene and insult people for literally no fucking reason at all.

Man, don't I know it. For a long while anyone to the left was driving me nuts with their cult behavior. The idiocy of thinking they want socialism/communism, and anyone who objected and tried to point out that their shiny view of it was not the way it would actually go was a racist, misogynist homophobe. I'm a political atheist, but for awhile I aligned far more with the right. Because yeah, I do think government or big corporate censorship is total shit, I don't agree with mandates by said government, I don't want government encroachment of any kind on my personal life, I don't take any benefits from the state I am perfectly capable of self governance thanks.

But. For fuck sake, now the right has also gone off the deep end. I have totally seen all of what you mentioned, that progression has been insane. How people have gone in their minds from wannabe commies to satanist pedophiles is a leap that I just do not understand at all.

I was completely thrown by this turn of events actually, because I thought "hey look at all of these people thinking for themselves, shaking off indoctrination, using logic....anddd nope, hah! I thought they were using critical thinking skills, apparently they were just letting a whole other group do their thinking for them because my only guess is that while the left worships at the alter of mainstream media, the right is now worshipping the fringe media, and all of it on both sides is utter bullshit. In my opinion, intentionally so. There is an agenda, but what's hilarious is that each side thinks it's a left wing thing, or a right wing thing. Sorry guys, you've all been duped.

Maybe that's why I'm so focused on balance right now. The majority of people are so far out of whack.. I've never known so many to be this far from middle ground. Again my personal conspiracy theory is that there's a motivation for that and division, confusion, fear and anger are all a part of it. I mean, maybe these things are just bi-products, but it sure feels like there's a purpose behind it to me.

The fact that they want to throw fits and not take advantage of the solutions you mentioned- it's not rational. I just hope people eventually find their way to an equilibrium.

At the end of the day, I don't really care.

Any movement based on lies and irrational behavior falls apart on its own. It sucks watching people get sucked in but I'm not here to babysit; and honestly, it's 2022 last time I checked. If you live in a world where you think demons are about to swoop in from out of the sky and downvote one of your blog posts and the only solution is you have to go somewhere else and spend hundreds if not thousands on a token, moving money from YOUR house to THEIR house... you deserve to get burned.

That's another thing cults do. Crypto is full of this shit. Behind the scenes, I'm watching, but that guy isn't the first to take the same approach and he's not the first to be coached or directed by others to take that approach. So we got the 'good vs evil' nonsense applied which establishes the necessary division. Then lines like, "Community X is better than community Y so it's in your best interest to remove yourself and your money from Y and place it in X."

On a sidenote with a twist of humor, since you like conspiracies. Downvotes can be an effective remedy that removes toxic behavior/personalities like WTP and those that came before. But encouraging those personality types to all leave with a fake promise of greener pastures on the other side not only helps alleviate strain on this token here but it also helps eliminate what some view as competition. Their goal is to go there and extract tokens from the reward pool with content people here were not satisfied with, not build an audience or paying market. So whatever. Place all the greedy dishonest types in one room and convince them it's nice; allow them to destroy it. Meanwhile people here have far more time to focus on more productive things. Hive isn't just some blogging platform anymore. People don't have time to be babysitting a reward pool. Having them leave is much easier. That approach seems to be working better. Lock them all within an echo chamber where they feed off one another's fucked up minds and thoughts. Turns into a problem that corrects itself I suppose.

Part of me feels bad WTP was convinced to be a pawn and work towards pumping their bags (I have a shit-ton of those tokens just waiting to be dumped LOL), but he was a dick so that's what he gets. Not my problem.

I don't know that I like conspiracy theories per say. I like hearing different views on things, different possibilities of what and why things might be done a certain way like what you just outlined, but I'm definitely irritated with the way people are jumping on every conspiracy bandwagon out there right now. The same people making fun of others for not doing their research are now just accepting any conspiracy that gets passed around without doing even the minimum due diligence. The freedom movement people are a great example. I liked the initial premise, but so many of them are exactly who I'm talking about.

I get it to a point, you find out you've been lied to about something and suddenly it is all suspect. Not just accepting what you're told as fact? That I understand. But to make leaps like "They're lying to us, the earth must be flat" now you're just trading one view you can't prove for another which, in that case, is easily disproven.
It's not thinking for yourself when you hear something someone else thought up and choose to believe it.

I know that I don't know. That's pretty much my motto, because once you think you know you quit learning and growing. You become inflexible, trading one box for another.

So it's not so much conspiracy I like, it's imagining all the possibilities, it's examining things from fresh angles. It's not believing something simply because someone with a piece of paper and flattering title said so. And being aware that we're being told a story- the history we've been taught for example- by people who want to frame things in a certain way. Generally for power or control or both.

Unlike most of the conspiracy world though, I don't necessarily think it's all nefarious. When you're in charge of billions of people, many of them quite self-centered, stupid, and short sighted, it makes sense to invent things like religions (not just of the esoteric variety, but also politics, sciences, even medicine). It creates order.

Just because I am more than capable of self-governance, doesn't mean I think everyone is. If there's anything I've learned from the past couple years, it's that truly rational, logical, critical thinking beings are on the rare side.

I don't need to believe in an afterlife that deals in reward or punishment to make good choices, anymore than I need a hundred thousand rules, statutes and mandates to keep me from causing harm. But I don't think that's true of the majority. Most people have proven that they need to be led, that they will hang themselves with too much rope, that they lack discernment etc. It's no longer a wonder why people get sucked in by cons and cults.

I know that you're an observer, that's one of the reasons I've always liked talking to you. Observers tend to be people who don't jump on bandwagons, who see things others don't. That you're intelligent, funny and creative is a bonus lol.

Glad you're back around! One of these days when I get restless again and that need to drive across the country for no real reason other than "there" starts seeming like a better "here" than "here." I'll have try to visit you. Much love lady. Stay awesome.

You would absolutely be welcome, I'll give you the grand tour of the finger lakes- sometime between May and October is beautiful, the winter is long and shitty here ha!

How kind of you to mention me! Our journeys have been running in parallel for so many years. I'll never forget how supportive you were of my writing early on. I can't believe what a roller coaster ride these past five years have been but what an amazing, mind blowing experience! Hive really does feel infinitely more stable than Steemit ever did.

I loved the early days of steemit, but it was definitely the very description of a rollercoaster ride- an unpredictable, loop de loop haha! I have to agree, Hive definitely seems much more stable, more of a lazy river with the occasional spray from the side 😆.

I do wonder about those just discovering a crypto blogging platform.. perhaps their experience here is just as exciting? It may be that it's no longer new to us, like visiting the desert when we've been many times, as opposed to the first one.

I spend a lot of time thinking of the things and people I have to be grateful for, and you are firmly on that list :)

The early days of Steemit will be remembered as one of the most exciting times of my life, for sure. It was the culmination of so many long-held dreams.

Hive definitely seems much more stable, more of a lazy river with the occasional spray from the side.

LOL, that is just about the most perfect analogy I've heard yet!

I bet Hive is just as exciting to some newer users as it was for us. I would imagine the Hive income for those bloggers from other parts of the developing world (South America, Eastern Europe, Africa) could be as life-changing as Steemit was for us.

It's so good to take that time to be grateful. I try to do that every day. After five years this new life still sometimes feels like a dream. I hope I never fully get used to it because it would be less enjoyable then. I am flattered, you are on my list as well. Enjoy your weekend!

BC, before Covid... Aaaah, that is a great term to use. I will be doing just that.

So many bathroom selfies, I shall now know what is taking the Good Lady so long when she hops off to the loo 🤣

🤣 I have a ocd issue with this I think hahaha!!

At least it is a relatively harmless OCD'ing! :OD

That's true, there are certainly worse things! Currently eating lunch with mama at a stellar beer place- awesome food and drinks, beautiful atmosphere :0)
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That's an incredible looking toilet!! I would defo pee there! ;0D

Indeed, quite a luxurious place to pee! Oh wow, check out my new 4 cent vote! 😆

Ooo, its shiny! Soon it will be ten cents and then infinity beckons!

The place does look the bomb, say hello to Mama D for me and enjoy!

Ah, thanks! Maybe we'll end up having a vacation in El Salvador some day together, even if we don't end up moving there for good.

That would be absolutely amazing! Yo hablo Espanol un poco, haha!

That's honestly how I hope it will go, we ride out the next few years of economic shifting, while crypto climbs, and take some of our big earnings to travel :)

In honour of the mention I did a selfie in front of the bathroom mirror to share here but...after seeing how messed up I looked, well, this comment will have to suffice. It wouldn't do, to scare anyone you know. 😳🤣

You're meant to keep your bloody clothes on!! ;OD

Oh damn it, I knew there's was something I did wrong and couldn't put my finger, or whole hand, on it.

Or did I? 🤪

As long as you got there in the end... Ooer!!! :OD

Lol.

🤣🤣 That's awesome! I've found the trick is to stand way back, then no matter how bad the hair day it's hard to see 😆

Lol. For me...Way, way back. Waaaaay back. 😉

We are always our worst critics, I'm sure you look great! :)

It's been rumoured...but then, it depends whose doing the looking I suppose.