I'm not close with my dad. I guess if I were to share a cup of coffee with him, I'd like it to be one of honesty. I'd ask him if it was worth it, the life he ended up having that could never arrange itself around kids, somehow. I'm genuinely curious.
@honeydue Sadly, things were that way for you. However, it's great that you seem not to hold onto bitterness, but would be prepared to ask a civil and responsible question, that's understandable.
It doesn't help anyone. Bitterness. A while ago, I took a long depressing look at how his absence impacted me, let him know, and that was that. It brought a lot of relief. Just like this flower brings a smile. Thank you, my dear.
Hopefully someday you can have a cup of coffee with him and learn to forgive for all that was not, sometimes the wisest thing to do is to forgive so as not to drag heavy burdens in our walk through life. My Regards @honeydue
These are things that happen in life and we cannot avoid them. A cup of sincerity is a very good idea to awaken feelings.
I leave you a cup of coffee for this day.☕
I think it's a cup of coffee ☕ you and your father owe each other, to clear things up, and even heal wounds!
Blessings 🙏
Hello, @honeydue !
There is a need to know that always accompanies our heart when it comes to affection. Sometimes I have mistakenly believed that emotions are only felt. We also need to understand them in order to live with them.
I appreciate your sincere comment.
Close your eyes as if you were meditating... and drink your coffee with pleasure, you will surely get the answer.
People are different and you will probably never know and understand the reasons behind your dad’s decisions. It’s really a sad story, but we have to learn to live the life as it is and find the positivities around us. 🙃
Fair enough. Life goes on and we reach that point where we can look back and understand many things. Or we may not understand them. I believe that we have every right to ask the necessary questions and also the right to discard the answers that won't help us to move on.