It's better to move on

in #hive-1768742 months ago

Relationships are a complicated subject for many people, and for that many are afraid of going into a relationship because there are many uncertainties in a relationship. Nobody knows exactly how much time one relationship sustains. Before going into a relationship, finding a suitable partner is very important. It can't guarantee a sustainable relationship, but it can be helpful in reducing the complexities of a relationship.

I am still single and have no experience in relationships. So, it's hard to judge everything in a relationship, but I won't go into a relationship if I see some habit in my partner's ( supposed to). I will give a red flag directly in that case.

For me, privacy is the most important thing. If someone asks me about my social media password, I will directly break up with that person, even if I am in a relationship. I know I have nothing to hide, but I won't choose to do it. Whatever the person is, s/he is an individual, and the thoughts of everyone are different. Some people say that if one trusts another and is loyal, then what's wrong with sharing passwords? In that case, I also ask them seriously. I think it's almost the opposite. One partner should not ask for a password if s/he trusts completely. And in my opinion, in most of the relationships, nobody trusts their partner completely, as they share passwords as proof. It's not a court where one needs to provide proof. Again, some people say that they are just taking the password, but they won't check it anytime. It sounds ridiculous to me because if there is no need to check social media accounts of partners, then what is the necessity of asking for a password? I know many guys will come to give explanations, but I think they are not seeing the reality. They can't see it from a general perspective. Maybe that's the reason it says love is blind or everything is fair in love. I am not an emotional type person. So it's not a girl for me; the truth will remain the truth for me.

I hate extremely emotional people, and there is no chance of choosing anyone like that as a life partner or to go in your relationship. Personally, I think too many emotional people are like a psycho or mentally unstable person. I know that emotion is very important, but I think it's also necessary to think practically because, only based on emotion, no relationship can sustain for a long time. Besides, the emotional type people can do anything based on their mood, and I don't know what kind of trouble I need to face for such a partner. It's better to stay on the safe side, and I won't be able to fulfill all their demands, as emotional type people demand a lot as they expect more from a relationship.

I know that emotion plays the primary role in going into a relationship, but only depending on it, going into a relationship can be foolishness. Instead of emotion, we need to think some practically. I will love to choose a partner who is equal to my status. I belong to a middle-class family, and I will try to make a partner who should be a middle class family also. I won't choose a rich or poor partner for me. From one perspective, it is not a major issue, but I thought about it several times. I observed many relationships, and I noticed choosing a partner from similar status is the most sustainable, and most of the time I noticed the difference of thoughts between partners, and they are from different status.

I know that there can be exceptions, but based on exceptions, I can't take the risk to choose a partner. If you have different opinions, then you are welcome to share.


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Hate is a really strong word to use especially for someone being emotional. I’m wondering if you’ve ever encountered an emotional person

I’m wondering if you’ve ever encountered an emotional person

Nop. I didn't encounter anyone personally but I have seen many cases in front of my eyes and I really hate those who are too much emotional. It creates instability in a relationship also. It's better to stay in safe side😅