A lot of trials for us were prepared ahead to challenge us. They are categorized from easy to difficult and it's really hard to face them while being alone. That's true for some but there are people out there who already mastered the way of being alone and I can say that they are invincible.
Because they came from nothing to everything by being alone. Maybe you don't have a lot of friends right now and that's okay. True friends will always stay by your side no matter how the world flips.
Have you ever say the words " I believe in myself."?
I can say that the moment you have faith in your capabilities to do something, you can consider it already as believing in one 's self. Now here's the question, do you believe in yourself?
If I will answer it that would be yes definitely and my presence here is the living proof. But how about you?
From my experiences I can say that believing in ourselves can be difficult to do due to a lot of factors that's evolving around us and to ourselves. We may not notice is at first but the one hindering ourselves to achieve a great height is none other than ourselves. Why's that?
Because of the thing what we called self doubt.
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The moment we doubt ouselves, we already lose the game. Because you can't do the impossible things when you're thinking that you cannot. It's that simple yet we do it very often when we face something we are not familiar with or we are taken by surprise just like how life surprise us everyday.
It may be just two words but believe me you can't go out in your comfort zones if you're doing this to yourself. This self doubt will box us in in a dark corner of our life, paralizing us to do something that we can do if we just not doubt ourselves.
Also by not doubting ourselves we open the channel leading to believing in one's self. Once we open it I'm sure that we can do even the things we can't imagine. So don't do this one to yourself because when do this you're just wasting a lot of opportunities out there.
You have to focus on your strengths.
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We may not be perfect but I know that we are good at something and it can be our asset to become successful in our journey.
We cannot deny that we do a lot of mistakes in our life but one thing is for sure, we excel at one thing and we need to focus on it no matter how bad we are on other fields. You cannot gain a thing if you just sit there and cry over your weaknesses in life.
Successful people out there tend to focus on the positive one which is their strengths that's why they attained where they are now. Our journeys may differ from each other but we can copy how they do it just like this one. If this one works on their ends, I'm sure it will work on us too if we can just do it into ourselves.
Take advantage of what you're good at, hone it because that is the key given to us. It just depends on how we use it.
You gotta believe in yourself and not from other's perspective about you.
You need to do it whether you like it or not because in the end of the day you can just turn to only one and that is yourself.
If other people can't see the good things in you then you do it yourself. There's no need to believe them if their talking about nonsense things about you. If you listen to them then you're just declaring that they already beat you to the ground.
Friend, you can transform into someone great if you believe in yourself. This one is already proven by the individuals who's very successful now. We just have to follow their examples and we can attain also the heights where we wanted to be.
Lastly don't give up while believing in yourself. That's the other key to become successful in our journey.
The world where we live in is tough so you gotta be tough and conquer the world.
Thank you for reading upto this far.
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